Relationship – A very well known word used in our day to day life, I really wonder what it actually means. Again I am giving a try to explain what I understand about it and also see what our minds think about it.
In my opinion the relationship can exist and last for long with two factors - Trust and Truth
Trust on any relation can be sustained with truth, so both are inter-related to each other.
Now let’s see the behavior of minds when it comes to relationship.
When trust is dependent on truth, human brain normally involves in building the trust among others with a well built falsity, this is because the mind assumes that the trust can be build only based on the factors irrespective of them being true or false.
This is applicable for all kind of relationships, let it be customer-company, Girl-Boy, Friend-Friend or anything. This does not mean all minds think of building a relationship with falsity but this is a kind of reverence that makes the mind to concentrate more on maintaining the relationship.
E.g.: A customer care representative tries his level best to sell the products by explaining all peculiar features to the customer, but when his turn comes to answer for any issues on the product he will somehow try to manage with unnecessary reasons that may or may not be true.
Why does this happen?
This is because the representative is concerned that the customer may not continue using his company’s product, so he tries to maintain the relationship with the customer using some bunch of reasons.
-This example may already be heard by some, but my mind do not allow me to write any examples about personal relationships :)
Where does falsity lead to?
Falsity leads to Anger and the anger leads to interruption in the relationships.
How to maintain a non-sinking Relation(ship)?
1. Convey facts upfront, do not create an image about you with mixed info.
2. Wait for the situation to interact, but do not hide truth waiting for a situation.
3. Do not assume any context is unnecessary for a discussion and make sure the discussion does not lead to debate.
4. Program your mind to admit mistakes.
5 comments:
Good conclusions yar :)
Nice one...kiran!!!
Gud one.. programming mind to accept mistakes is really a gud one..But what happens is, when the person whom we really trust makes any mistake,it's difficult to accept immediately[:((]
Nice one.
" human brain normally involves in building the trust among others with a well built falsity" is a moot point.
Reminds me of the 6-marks questions ;)
just kidding, good analysis. keep it up! and keep writing.
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